I want a man who won’t deprive me of sex – Actress, Elvina Ibru

Actress, scriptwriter and entrepreneur, Elvina Ibru is the eleventh child of late business scion, Olorogun Michael Ibru who passed on late last year. In this chat with Entertainer (Sun), the graduate of Theatre Arts and mother of one opens up about her love life…

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Sun: Elvina you are a beautiful woman and ever since you trimmed down, you have been simply breathtaking. Tell  us about the man in your life?

(Laughter) Thank you. There is no man in my life o; really.

Sun: Is it that you are not proud of the guy you are dating right now?

No, there is no man.

Sun: Are you celibate?

Yes, I have been for a while

Sun: Why?

Why not? Do you jump into bed with just anybody. I am not saying I am celibate for religious reasons. You don’t just jump into bed with just anybody but if I meet a nice person, why not?

Sun: What are those qualities you look out for in a guy?

Hmmm… The ones that they never have (laughter). People say it is not about the looks but the heart and I say that is nonsense (laughter). The first thing you see is the physical. I like tall dark men and I don’t like those with potbellies. As far as character is concerned, honesty is important no matter how much you have, if you made your money dis-honestly I no fit follow you. For instance, if you are doing 419, it won’t happen. Honesty in your relationship is important. I always tell guys, maybe they think I am joking. Try and  be open. If you have been messing around as a guy, tell me. If for instance you play away match and carry something, tell me; don’t hide it and don’t deprive me of sex because you know you have  something because I will begin to worry you about myself.  I am a very liberal person. I can date a Moslem, a Buddhist probably but they have to understand my love for God. There is love  in a lot of religions but as Christians we preach love but we don’t act it so yeah,  he must have the fear of God, preferably a Christian.