A Nigerian woman proud to be a gay ( read exclusive interview)

A Nigeria woman open about her sexuality, hmmmmmmm.  Well is a UK-based bisexual, Yemisi Ilesanmi, a single mother and an atheist, who has been fighting for the rights of gays for many years. Did I just say  ‘a mother’? lol.
Anyways, in TELL magazine exclusive interview with her, she spoke on issues surrounding homosexuality and its perception in Nigeria.
Here is copy of TELL magazine’s exclusive interview

Whether Nigerians accept it or not, LGBT rights are recognised human rights. Unless, you can prove that Lesbians, gays, biséxuals and transséxuals are not human beings, well, you have no reason to deny them their fundamental human rights. Unfortunately many Nigerians believe in the concept of sin. First, we must understand that sin is a religious concept. Not every Nigerian is religious. Your religion is also a personal matter, why drag other people into your personal relationship with Jesus, Mohamed or Obatala?

When I am told that homoséxuality is a sin, I just tell them their religion is not my law. The Bible or Quran is not my constitution, so why is that even coming up?

The very first thing we need to understand is that homosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality are all as natural as heterosexuality. Our sexual orientation differs; we are born with an innate ability to be emotionally or sexually attracted or not be sexually or emotionally attracted to same sex or opposite sex. Unfortunately, many African societies do not provide enabling environments to discuss sexual orientation. Sexual orientation does not harm anyone. A person who is attracted to opposite sex does not harm anyone so far it is a consensual adult relationship.

It is absurd when Christian gay bashers gleefully quote Leviticus 18:22 to justify why they want to jail and stone gays. Anyone who wants to quote from Leviticus should at least read the book to make sure they are not guilty of any of the things condemned in the book. Leviticus also says you should not shave, you should not interact with a woman in hermenstrual cycle, thou shall not eat shrimps or shell fish, Lev. 11:10,11:6-8 thou shall not touch the skin of a dead pig (therefore touching football without wearing gloves makes you unclean!) So, when Christians throw Leviticus at me, I simply throw Leviticus right back in their face.

My immediate family knows my sexual orientation, my father is late, and my mother is accepting of whom I am and has shown me love and support. To continue to be an important part of my life, you cannot be homophobic, biphobic or transphobic.

My atheism has nothing to do with my biséxuality. Atheism is simply a non-belief in God. My bisexuality is my sexual orientation, no connection. However, I must say, my atheism has helped me to stand up against religious bullies, who use the Bible and the Quran to justify their hate for gays, lesbians, transsexual and bisexuals.

Religion carries a lot of unwarranted weight in Nigeria and Africa generally. This should not be so. In fact, this is one reason the African continent is still very backward. When religion carried so much weight in Europe during middle Ages, it was wrought with wars, jihads,killings and ethnic cleansing.

Many religious Africans now use the ‘holy’ books to justify the oppression of members of their own society. Even when the original owners of the religion inform them that the book has been updated and some parts are no longer applicable, Africans still insist that it is must be applicable because it says so in the book they were given. How pathetic!

About Delia Innoma

Delia Innoma is a prolific writer, promoter, artist manager with full professional proficiency in English, German and Igbo languages. She studied accounting and computer programming at the Institute of Management and Technology Enugu and Germany respectively. Delia is also a devoted mother of two and she founded the Diamond Celebrities Magazine. Her sense of responsibility and commitment to the Christian faith are essential forces driving her daily activities.

5 Responses to “A Nigerian woman proud to be a gay ( read exclusive interview)”

  1. Have u seen he goat having sex with he goats?

  2. abydanny@yahoo.com Reply March 11, 2014 at 17:51

    U are very stupid. How can any1 even think of marrying same sex. Ewwwww. U r such a shame 2 dis country. Y u no come Naija come talk all dis nonsence. Shame on u. Daughter of Jezebel……..

  3. What more can I say if no SODOMY…..dats y God destroyed sodom and Gomorrah………nd you will not be an exception. Why did u let a man impregnate you when u enjoy being with your fellow woman? Mtcheeeew

  4. let’s keep religion aside , how fitting is it wen a woman marries a woman or a man marries a man ? has d writer ever pondered on that?can a woman impregnate a woman naturally? wen ever a woman goes for a fellow woman in sex ,its only an attempt to quench a sexual taste.i call it sexual longer throat . d original sex is between opposite .

  5. Devil reincarnate. End time!!!

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