How I Handle Dispute With Wife, By Ebuka Obi-Uchendu

Media personality, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu in a chit-chat session with wife, Cynthia, has opened up about their approach to managing conflicts.

The couple addressed intimate questions posed by Cynthia’s fans on her YouTube channel.

During this heart-to-heart conversation, they underscored the significance of mutual presence and communication as key tools in conflict resolution in their marriage.

Speaking of ways to settle their marital dispute, Ebuka said:  “I think we made a conscious decision very early in our marriage regarding some things that maybe helped us because nobody knew this marriage thing from the start. Now we’re eight years strong going on nine and we’re still learning plenty of lessons.”

He elaborated on their commitment to unity, regardless of the intensity of their disagreement.

“One thing we always said is no matter what it is we’re always going to spend the night in the same bed. So no matter how you are boiling, you would still feel that person’s body beside you. So we spend the night every night together so far we’re in the same city,” Ebuka stated. 

Summing it up, Ebuka emphasised the important role of open communication within their marriage, detailing their journey towards mastering the art of constructive dialogue.

“We have also perfected the art of someone coming forward to say ‘Okay, what just happened?’ And we had a conversation about it. So we learned from our errors and mistakes. Your egos might get in the way sometimes especially when you feel like you’re not the one who did wrong, but we’ve perfected it,”  Ebuka said.

Adding her voice to the narrative, Cynthia noted, “We talk things through,” with Ebuka affirming, “Yeah.”

-The Nation